Third Culture Kids revisted!

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A few years ago I wrote an article that was very near to my heart, but ultimately didn’t make the cut for the magazine I was writing for.  Since then I posted it on my blog here, where it continues to be one of my more popular blog entries, but there was always a part of me that wished it could get a bigger distribution than my little slice of the internet.  Enter Youth Ministry Today, the new website that is all things youth ministry!  I actually have a bunch of different drama scripts and resources that I have written on there, but this last week they published my article on missionary kids and third culture kids and made it one of the featured articles in their email blast!  Sweet!  Check it out here if you want!

Books Your Students Will Actually Read

Books Your Students Will Actually Read Bundle

There’s a sweet deal happening over at Simply Youth Ministry; for $25 you can get about fifty bucks worth of books!  Here’s the link, Books Your Students Will Actually Read Bundle, which comes with:

One Minute Bible for Students
The One Minute Bible for Students won’t replace your Bible. It will inspire you to take side trips into your Bible to see what came before and what comes after the passage you just read. These bite-size servings of Scripture are sure to increase your appetite for God’s Word.

Stripped Clean
Give your teenagers a guilt-free, up-close look at materialism–one that strips away the overwhelming messages of a consumer society. You’ll see authentic changes in readers as they tear out pages to use in Jesus-centered activities.

10 Minute Moments – God’s Story
Each edition works like a daily journal with 31 relevant devotionals that only take about 10 minutes to complete. Students will read a Bible passage, get some questions to chew on, some suggestions to help them pray, and then space to reflect. It’s easy to read and easy to stick with. This edition is focused on God’s story—who He is, what He has done for us, and how we can live a life that brings Him glory. It’s got great lessons for new Christians as well as students who have “grown up in the church”. Use them as part of a small group or retreat emphasis on daily devotions, graduation gifts, birthday gifts, or just have them available to students.

10 Minute Moments – Plugged In
10-Minute Moments: Plugged In is a daily devotional that’s set up as a journal. Students read a Bible passage, poke their brain with a few questions, get some suggestions on what to pray about, and then space to write down their thoughts. It’s a one-month plan that’s easy to read and easy to stick with. And, if you hadn’t guessed from the title, each “lesson” only takes about 10 minutes. This time around, they’ll tackle the five biblical purposes of our lives—Worship, Fellowship, Discipleship, Ministry and Evangelism. Keep ‘em on hand for new students, pass ‘em out as graduation gifts, or just hide them in their backpacks. You can’t lose!

99 Thoughts about Guys – For Girls’ Eyes Only
In some ways, a guy’s mind seems incredible simple. So why are dudes always so confounding, especially to girls? Luckily, youth pastor extraordinaire Kurt Johnston has spent decades figuring out the brains of teenage boys—including his own noggin. And with some extra insights from fellow youth worker Katie Edwards, they’ve crafted a humorous, yet incredibly helpful, handbook on unwrapping the male brain. While written with girls as an audience, this book also fills a much needed hole in any youth worker’s bookshelf or parent’s reading list.

99 Thoughts about Girls – For Guys’ Eyes Only
While this book doesn’t claim to unlock the deep, unfathomable mysteries of the female mind, it will give tons of helpful insights into what makes teenage girls tick. And who better to lead you on this adventure than Katie Edwards, a teenage girl herself once, and now a youth worker with tons of girl-brain-decoding experience. Her trusty sidekick on this expedition is Kurt Johnston, whose sidebars chime in with extra info. With short, easy to digest essays on a variety of topics, it’s perfect for teenage guys trying to figure out that special girl (or the girl they wish was that special girl), youth workers and parents alike.

99 Thoughts for College-Age People
The transition from high school to college is usually the most dramatic in young people’s lives. In this humorous and thought-provoking resource, Chuck Bomar offers up pearls of wisdom gained over years of personal and professional experience. It’s great as a graduation gift, as a college freshman small group discussion starter, or as any number of other uses. However you put it to work, you’ll be sure to save some young adults some pain, money, and from foot fungus.

Imparting Value

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Here’s my column from the May/June, 2009 issue of the Journal of Student Ministries.  The topic for me was how do we communicate value to all of our students through verbal and, more importantly, non-verbal cues.  I have to admit, I struggled with whether or not I should use some of the examples I used in the article; ultimately I went with them because they were significant moments in my life and ministry and ultimately impacted a lot of my thoughts on the topic.  Let me know what you think!

Imparting Value – Journal of Student Ministries, May/June, 2009

Randomosity

Does life ever actually slow down?  Overwhelming would be putting it mildly right now!

Both of my summer missions trips are finished now (Maine and Nicaragua), which has left me tired but happy.  Unfortunately, it also means that I disappeared for a few weeks from the church and nothing else slowed down – nothing like coming back exhausted to a pile of people waiting for you to take care of a thousand things!  Yikes!

Did I mention I’m moving tomorrow?  Yeah, last month it seemed like a great idea.  Right now, not so much.  Having said that, I can’t wait to finally be living in the same state as the church I work at!  Finally!  The boys are all pumped about their new bedrooms, I’m pumped about the family room (time to hang up my autographed Star Trek poster!), and Heather’s pumped about the rest of the house!

I have been quiet on the blogging front which I intend to see change after this weekend – once we’re at the new place and I don’t have a mile long list of things to do (yeah, like that’s actually going away any time soon), it might be a little easier?

I think I need to sneak off and take a nap …

The Red Light

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I just finished writing my latest column for the Journal of Student Ministries and realized I hadn’t posted the last couple I had written yet (you’ll have to wait a while for the one I just finished!).  Anyway, here’s one today that I wrote for the March/April, 2009, issue on the priority of rest, and tomorrow I’ll post the other one!

The Red Light – Journal of Student Ministries, March/April, 2009

Let me know what you think!

Nicaragua Day 12

Nicaragua water slide

Today was our last full day at Campo Alegria!  We had the crew of kids from the local school we’ve been doing a day camp at come to the camp today for a water slide and pinatas!!!  It was a blast!  Basically, we dug a trench out from the hill, down the beach to the lake, put plastic down and then hooked up a pump with pipes running from the lake to the top of the slide – that puppy cranked out 300 gallons a minute!  Definitely not your every day slip and slide!  The kids had a BLAST!  So did our teens!

We fed the group of close to sixty kids lunch, and then also had two giant pinatas – one for the girls and one for the boys.  These kids know how to beat a pinata!!!

The clock is ticking on our time in Nicaragua.  Tomorrow morning we’ll say goodbye to the camp, get on a bus and head back to the capital city, Managua.  On the way we’ll stop at Granada and Masaya for some touristy type activity, and then stay at a hotel near the airport.  Saturday morning we’re up obscenely early, and arrive back in the US at 5pm (parents, don’t forget to pick up your kids – I don’t want to miss seeing my kids before their bedtime because I’m waiting at the airport!)!  Where did these two weeks go?

Nicaragua video update #2!

Okay, so this is actually from day seven … but our internet has been out FOREVER.  It’s finally up, however briefly, so here’s the update I put together while we were in the middle of camp!  Enjoy!

Nicaragua Day 10

Wow. Today is a SCORCHER. And the power has been out since before we got up this morning (it just now came back on), so no fans! No wind, no clouds just mucho, mucho sunshine. Everyone is pretty much just sitting around trying to minimize movement and conserve energy! But enough of that! On to the update!

Yesterday was a GREAT day off! We took off from Campo Alegria first thing in the morning and headed out to San Juan del Sur, a small touristy type town on the Pacific Ocean. A bunch of the teens were pumped to stick their feet in the Pacific for the first time! We spent the morning and early afternoon there, walking through the town, playing in the ocean, and just chilling after a long, hard (but good) camp experience! After we had our fill of the beach, we hopped back in the bus and took off for Masaya Volcano. I have to confess, it was one of my favorite stops of the trip! Its a fairly stable volcano, but its still smoking a bit. We were able to drive right up to the top and look down into the crater theres just something awe inspiring to drive past miles of lava rocks and look into the smoky depths. Very, very cool. Parents dont worry, we were safe at all times and we wont be visiting any more volcanoes this trip!!!

Today we started our day camp at a local school. The kids are actually on school vacation right now, but close to fifty turned out for some educational lessons, game time and lunch. It was really great sharing and demonstrating the love of Jesus to these kids that no one else is helping. We also are using part of the money we raised as a team to take care of some physical needs of the school; weve hired some Nicaraguans to spend the next couple days working on the roof (dont worry, Im not putting your kids up there!!!), well be repairing the schools well (the only source for water there), and providing locks and latches that well install to help secure the buildings at night. The teachers were certainly happy to let us come and interact with their students and the kids were just phenomenal.

Well be returning to the school again tomorrow, and then Thursday morning as well. Thursday, however, well be bringing the kids back to Campo Alegria (the school is only a couple miles away) for piñatas and a huge slip and slide well be putting together. Actually, calling it a slip and slide doesnt begin to do it justice; well be running pipes into the lake to get water and have a pump churning out 300 gallons a minute on to the slip and slide check that, more like a raging water slide! Were all pretty excited about it!

For those wondering, we still dont have internet access (this is all coming from my cell phone), so no photos or video! I have to confess, Im a little bummed; I put together a two minute video update several days ago but I havent been able to do anything with it!!!

Nicaragua Day 8

First the bad news: still no internet! It should be back on tomorrow, so for parents waiting for a call from their son or daughter, that’s when it will happen (we’ll be using skype – a phone service using the internet for pennies a minute instead of dollars a minute using a regular phone). If we don’t get internet by then I’ll let the kids use my cell phone, but the calls will have to be shorter in that scenario.

But enough on that! Camp is over, the kids are gone and my team is asleep in hammocks all over this property! We are beat! Those kids ran us ragged! The team did an amazing job, put in looooooooong days and truly created a memorable experience for the children. It was sad saying goodbye and loading these kids onto a bus to take them back to their ‘homes’ in the Managua city dump. Having spent two days in the dump and seeing the horrific conditions they live in made it tough to send these little children we spent four days bonding with back to. I’m sure our debriefing time will be a hard one tonight – the brokenness of our world is demonstrated in such a tangible way by the place these little children call home.

Tomorrow is our day off! We’ll be visiting San Juan del Sur, a town on the Pacific ocean for some beach time and swinging by Masaya on the way back. It’s some well deserved down time for our teens before we spend Tuesday, Wednesday and Thursday working at a school a couple miles from Campo Alegria. We’ll be teaching English, doing educational projects, playing games, feeding the kids as well as some physical repairs and work projects, too! It should be quite an experience to finish our trip with – there’s a strong possibility that we could have an ongoing relationship with the school. Our teens are hungry to be a continuing tool for God in a place like this school we will be at, a place that noone else is lining up to help.

If all goes well, tomorrow we’ll have internet and I’ll be able to post another video! keep praying for us – we appreciate it!

Nicaragua Day 6

Our first week is almost a wrap! There was a big storm a couple days ago that was fun to experience – but it knocked out all our internet access! That means I’m pecking out this blog update from my cell phone – forgive me if I’m brief!!!

We are in full on camp mode now! The bus load of kids arrived yesterday afternoon with energy to spare! Probably the thing that had them most excited was swimming in the lake – living in the city dump makes this their only opportunity to see this much clean water! In fact, that’s where everyone is right now! Swimming!

The teens are doing amazing with the kids and their different teaching responsibilities. We also have a crew of translators that are amazing!

That’s all for now! Hopefully we’ll have internet access back – otherwise my thumbs are going to take a beating doing this on my phone!!!