Based on a recommendation from a parent in my church, I recently read Virginia G. Breen and Elizabeth M. Bonker’s I Am in Here: The Journey of a Child with Autism Who Cannot Speak but Finds Her Voice. It’s not a book without divided opinions about it; Breen’s hope that her daughter Elizabeth’s autism can be cured and her self-described relentless pursuit of that goal has frustrated some.
While the book highlights Elizabeth’s poetry throughout, giving a glimpse into the thoughts of Virginia’s non-verbal daughter, it’s real strength is in giving a window into the experiences of a parent trying to navigate their child’s autism. It’s a story of hopes, heartbreaks, a constant pursuit to find help for her daughter. There are setbacks, challenges, steps forward.
Virginia writes, “People aren’t facts or static objects that can be fully mastered. Instead, we are constantly changing and growing beings who must be continually learned, with respect and attentiveness. We are mysteries to be experienced, not problems to be solved.” I appreciate the perspective that people are mysteries to be experienced, not problems to be solved. She challenges readers to appreciate people for who they are, regardless of ability. To see the beauty in each life God has created.
I’m grateful for the family in my church recommending this book; it gives insight into their experience and I appreciate that this is one they resonate with.
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